Ed Sheeran’s song “Visiting Hours” expresses a heartfelt longing to reconnect with a lost loved one, using the poignant idea of being able to visit those who have passed away if Heaven had visiting hours[1]. The lyrics convey grief and remembrance, imagining the opportunity to share life updates, seek advice, and feel close to the person who’s no longer present. Sheeran specifically wrote and dedicated the song to Michael Gudinski, his late friend and mentor, an influential Australian music promoter who passed away unexpectedly in March 2021[2]. The emotional core of the song centers around Sheeran wishing that Gudinski could have met his daughter and be part of moments in his life, reflecting the ongoing impact of the loss[4].
Throughout the song, Sheeran shares feelings of vulnerability and the challenges of navigating life and parenthood without the guidance of his late mentor. He sings of wishing for advice and reassurance, highlighting conversations he’d have if visiting hours in heaven were possible. The refrain “so much has changed since you’ve been away” underscores the passage of time and the ways in which Gudinski’s legacy continues through Sheeran’s actions and the lessons imparted[1]. The song ultimately resolves with a sense of acceptance; Sheeran commits to living life as Gudinski taught him, vowing to keep his memory alive: “I will close the door, but I will open up my heart, and everyone I love will know exactly who you are, ’cause this is not goodbye, it is just ’til we meet again.”[1]
“Visiting Hours” not only illustrates personal grief but also resonates with anyone who has experienced the loss of a loved one, giving voice to the universal wish for just a little more time with those we’ve lost[5]. The song quickly gained recognition and earned multiple certifications worldwide, including Platinum in the UK and New Zealand[4].
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